"Until we have met the monsters in ourselves, we keep trying to slay them in the outer world. And we find that we cannot. For all darkness in the world stems from darkness in the heart. And it is there that we must do our work."
A catcall is entirely about reminding you that you are not yours. The purity myth is entirely about reminding you that you are not yours. The fetishization of female purity in a world where catcalls are an acceptable form of communication telegraphs one thing very clearly:
“Women, stop sexualizing yourselves—that’s our job, and you’re taking all the fun out of it.”
The sexualization of women is only appealing if it’s nonconsensual. Otherwise it’s “sluttiness,” and sluttiness is agency and agency is threatening.
"Contact is straight. Contact is steady. Contact is definite and the definite pressure is created by your leg into your hand, where the horse takes your hand. The horse goes into your hand and the suppleness stays through your elbow."
I’ve graduated today!!! Now I officially have a doctorate in pharmacy!!
"Stay close to anything that makes you glad you are alive."
a male celebrity can literally beat his girlfriend half to death and still enjoy a successful career with millions of adoring fans
a female celebrity can gain a few pounds and she’s shunned, mocked, and ridiculed by thousands of people over many different mediums
do you see the problem with this
"Love me, because love doesn’t exist, and I have tried everything that does."